Teddy seemed a bit more depressed this time I saw him than usual. He'd been working hard at building a relationship with his live-in duck girlfriend, Anatra, at the same time as building their business. The last time I saw him he was stressed out but happy -- this time he just looked tired.

"I feel like I'm doing a crappy job of everything," he said. "I haven't finished any projects, and Anatra is stressed out too. I was always good at getting things done, and she was always happy when we were together before. I just don't know if this

Teddy has made huge strides in his life--so it surprised me when he called me and showed up for our session looking like total crap. It turns out, that in the process of moving in with his duck girlfriend and starting a new business, he'd neglected to tell me that he hadn't quit his day job. "It was fine for a while," he said, "but now I feel like I'm going to rip all my hair out. I'm driving myself crazy trying to figure out what to do!"

"OK, Ted," I said. ​"What are you thinking?"

He sighed. "I'd really